Showing posts with label #Enemy. Show all posts
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Friday, July 8, 2016

The Anger Danger, How to Close the Door on Your Enemy

The danger of anger.
We have an enemy. His goal is to lead your heart away from God and godliness.

This master of subtlety and conniving, knows your areas of weakness and mine. He often uses our pride and our selfishness to prompt us to action. In the first generation of mankind, our adversary was already using anger and resentment as a lure. Notice the warning God gave to Cain.

“Abel, on his part also brought of the firstlings of his flock and of their fat portions. And the LORD had regard for Abel and for his offering; but for Cain and for his offering He had no regard. So Cain became very angry and his countenance fell. Then the LORD said to Cain, “Why are you angry? And why has your countenance fallen? “If you do well, will not your countenance be lifted up? And if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door; and its desire is for you, but you must master it.” Cain told Abel his brother. And it came about when they were in the field, that Cain rose up against Abel his brother and killed him.” Genesis 4:4-6

Anger becomes a problem when we allow it to remain in us. “BE ANGRY, AND yet DO NOT SIN; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and do not give the devil an opportunity (or place). Ephesians 4:26, 27. Like Cain, when we allow anger to stay, we also allow Satan a place in our heart. Cain allowed his anger to fester and grow and overtake him. His anger opened the door for Satan (who was crouching just outside the door) to work in him.

What is the remedy for injustice and our anger because of wicked schemes? How do we respond? Not in anger…
“Commit your way to the LORD,
Trust also in Him, and He will do it.
He will bring forth your righteousness as the light
And your judgment as the noonday.
Rest in the LORD and
wait patiently for Him;
Do not fret because of him who prospers in his way,
Because of the man who carries out wicked schemes.
Cease from anger and
forsake wrath;
Do not fret;
it leads only to evildoing.”
 Psalm 37:5-8

This you know, my beloved brethren.
But everyone must be quick to hear,
slow to speak and
slow to anger;
for the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God.
James 1:19, 20


My enemy wants to infiltrate my mind and my actions. How do I close the door on this adversary who is crouching just outside the door?  
  •  Commit my actions to Him
  • Trust Him to take care of it
  • Rest and wait patiently while He works
  • Do not be angry or fret over it
  • Listen with mouth closed
  • Do not act in anger.



Father in Heaven,
You know the injustices, accusations, and wickedness around us today. I pray that I will respond without anger and resentment. I pray that I will respond with total trust in You to bring judgment and not take judgment into my own hands. I pray that You will give me the strength and courage to look to You and rest in You when all around me is turmoil, strife and anger of men.

May I never fall for Satan’s lie and act in my anger and distress. I pray I will behave in a manner pleasing to You, no matter the circumstance surround me. 

I pray for those in distress today. I pray that You will surround them and they will look to You instead of the enemy.

I pray these things in Jesus’ most holy and righteous name, Who is my example of not returning insult for insult, and when reviled, did not revile in return.


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Saturday, February 20, 2016

Still there?

Yes, there is only one door to the bathroom...
If you are a pet owner (or have a pet that owns you – I’ve never really been sure how that works) then you know the back story to this photo. For those who live lonely lives or have sparse imagination, this picture was taken in the bathroom. Keep in mind that there is only one door in and out of that particular room and he was standing in front of it. All of that is irrelevant after 30 seconds when you know who doubts what he knows to be true and implements his locksmith skills to confirm my location and dispel his doubt.

I used to bask in the thought he just loved me so very much he couldn’t stand a moment without me. Now, I face the reality that perhaps he just doesn’t want to lose me. I wear many hats, one of which is the feeder of the dog, which places me in high standing with him. I hold onto the notion that he loves me, but understand that love might be somewhat related to the contents of (or lack thereof) his dinner bowl.

The groomer of the dog hat is also mine, although I can’t say he particularly likes that part. Well, at least he feigns a dislike of the b.a.t.h. part (don’t say it out-loud or he will immediately gain 1,282 pounds of gravitational pull). Despite his protests, he does like the part where he is lying on a warm towel in front of a heater blowing his fuzzy belly hair backwards as if he were on a tropical island with an ocean breeze. This is also the part where I remind him how special he is to me and how handsome he looks…as his eyes roll back into his little head and the snoring begins.

The protector of the dog hat is one that fits my head from time to time. If there is a loud noise, he immediately begins to try find me. His story would be that he is alerting me to the danger but, his big, bad-dog woofs from behind my legs tell me he is afraid and wants my help.

Early on, I was the teacher of the dog, and he was eager to please. He would eagerly find any toy I named and follow several commands. Again, there were treats involved – so I admit that might have played a part. Nevertheless, the bright eyes and stubby tail wags told me that pleasing me was the main goal.

Schnauzer patrol. You still there?
So, my little buddy follows me whether I am going to the kitchen or inspecting the flowers in the yard. He is happiest when we are in eyesight, specifically making eye contact with him.  Likewise when he can’t see us or worse yet, sees us leaving him (GASP) the crying begins. I’m talking about “screaming like his toes are in a guillotine” crying.  We call affectionately call it the “EEEOOO” song. Some have compared it to a siren. It serves as “you forgot the dog!” and “I see you going out the door!” all expressed with volume that denies the “miniature” in miniature schnauzer. He just wants to be with us. That is basically all he asks (well, besides the dinner bowl).

As I considered his silly forgetfulness at the bathroom door, I was reminded of my very own. When I leave him, I always remind him “You be a good boy, we’ll be back in a little while”. When he is required to stay outside for a moment while I go in for something, I let him know it isn’t permanent abandonment by telling him “I’ll be right back, you stay here”. He is OK with that - as long as he can see me through the glass door. The problem with the bathroom door is that (for reasons beyond his comprehension) it is opaque. So despite my reassurance of a quick return, he is not satisfied until he sees for himself.

My Lesson
Understanding that, just between us, I tend to leave the door un-barricaded. I do it because I understand. I know God is real. I talk with Him and listen to Him and know He is as real as the sky above and the earth under my feet. I know He is faithful to His promises. I know that God will never leave me or forsake me. But…at times, I am tricked into doubt. (Beware of the Father of Lies who tells you such things. He has been around since the Garden and is still roaming around.)

You and I are not the first to experience it. Perhaps you remember that God demonstrated great signs and Pharaoh released the Hebrew children only to give chase after them. The people (who had witnessed these great signs and wonders) came to an impasse with Pharaoh and his soldiers behind them and an un-crossable body of water in front of them.  Their first thought – they were going to die. Moses reminded them “Do not fear! Stand by and see the salvation of the LORD…The LORD will fight for you while you keep silent” Exodus 14:13, 14. Their salvation came that day in the form of the parting of a great sea, and “the sons of Israel went through the midst of the sea on the dry land, and the waters were like a wall to them on their right hand and on their left. And when Israel saw the great power which the LORD had used against the Egyptians, the people feared the LORD, and they believed in the LORD and His servant Moses.” Exodus 14:22, 31

Now that’s something we wouldn’t easily forget, right? Sure, easy for you to say. Three days later they were in the wilderness and found no water. Of course, you know the story, God already had it planned out and provided what they needed in a way they just couldn’t see at the time. They needed to learn to trust Him. Years later, just before they went into the promised land, Moses reminded them “Be strong and courageous, do not be afraid or tremble at them for the LORD your God is the one who goes with you. He will not fail you or forsake you”.

God came to earth in flesh to demonstrate His profound love for us, and how we should walk before Him. Jesus told His followers He would be killed (give His life actually) and then rise up on the third day, yet when it happened they reacted in fear. After the crucifixion, they were waiting in fear behind closed doors when Jesus appeared to them.  

Before Jesus ascended into heave, He promised “I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” Matthew 28:20.  I’m guessing He knew we would need to hear that again.
                                       
If the Hebrew children saw miracles and were still afraid and doubted what they could not see, the disciples who walked with Jesus had fears, then perhaps fear is a bridge that leads to doubt. It could be a  fear that God has abandoned us, or is not watching or will go back on His promises. Satan, our adversary, our enemy, the father of lies would have us believe that. If these two examples dealt wrongly with fear and doubt, then how should we deal with them?

Things to remember when dealing with fear and doubt.
  • We abide in Him. Like the schnauzer looking for assurance that all is well, we stay near Him. Whoever confesses that Jesus is the Son of God, God abides in him, and he in God”. 1 John 4:15


  • God abides in us and is infinitely more powerful than our enemy. “The word of God abides in you, and you have overcome the evil one”. 1 John 2:14


  • Abiding in Him brings His love within us.  “God is love, and the one who abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.”1 John 4:16


  • His love casts out fear. “There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear.” 1 John 4:18


Without finger-pointing at all, I recognize myself in both the doubts of a certain schnauzer, freed slaves, and the disciples of Christ, simply because I am tempted to fear instead of trust. Any and all of those fears are dispelled when I look to Him. I like to think that is why He left the door cracked a bit – just so we can see Him and remember He said “I will never desert you, nor will I ever forsake you”, so we can confidently say “The LORD is my helper, I will not be afraid.” Hebrews 13:5, 6.

My prayer

Most gracious and loving Father in heaven,
Thank You for being so worthy of my trust, 
and for the amazing patience You show me 
even when I allow my fears blind me to Your presence.
                     
Thank You for giving me Your word 
so rich in promises and assurance. 
Show me new and fresh ways 
to abide more fully in You and Your word and 
share that with a world filled with fear.

Help me to draw near to You every day, 
seeking Your face in all I do. 

Thank You for giving me courage in the face of fear, 
by being with me and never leaving me. 


Prod me to remember to always look to 
and trust Your hand to provide in ways 
I might not be able to see.  
                                       
I pray in Jesus' name,
Amen.


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From the Temple Institute. This Rabbi shares insights about the time of the exodus and the quick return of bitterness by those who had just been rescued. A very insightful look at human nature and the hand of God.
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Wednesday, April 29, 2015

Chickadee Challenge

Chickadee babies.

The famous chickadees (see blog posts Chickadee Choices and Chickadee Conflict) who have been living in our yard (or their yard depending on your perspective) have been challenged. You may remember the sparrows from earlier in the year that tried to take advantage of the chickadee’s nest building. The intruding sparrows thought they could move into a furnished luxury apartment, until my husband stepped in and made the door chickadee-sized. The sparrows could no longer gain entrance and finally the chickadees were able to finish their home and start their family.

This week, just as the babies were coming out of their shells the sparrows returned. Even though they knew they could not enter and use the nest themselves, they were determined to wreak havoc on the chickadee family. They did.

They travel in a herd, or maybe a flock. Their stampede certainly seemed like a raging herd of bulls. Through sheer intimidation, numbers, and persistence they bullied the chickadees until out of fear, the chickadees fled. With the naked little ones unprotected, the sparrows were able to grab one and pull it out of its home. When I heard the commotion I went out to help and found the babe sprawled out on the ground. Because he was still moving I carefully placed the tiny fuzzy-headed body back in the nest with his brother and scolded the sparrows. They almost seemed to laugh at me as they flew off.

We checked on the status of the siblings throughout the rest of the day and saw no sign of Mr. and Mrs. C. The next day, still no parents had come back to rescue their children. They were now beyond hope. Gone. Lifeless and alone in a box that was so full of hope.

The chickadees were given a great opportunity. They had a wonderful nesting box. They had the perfect size entrance hole so no intruders could trespass.  They even had our pond for bathing, and lots of worms for snacks. The one thing they didn’t have was courage to stand.  All they had to do was to stand firm in the knowledge of the security of the box, yet their fear got the best of them. They gave up when it got hard, and their fear cost them the lives of their chicks.

I must confess I am tempted to give up at times. I KNOW without a doubt that God has a plan, yet wonder sometimes how He could possibly work out certain circumstances that seem so impossible. I KNOW that His love is greater than any other and yet I still wonder if He really could love me.  I KNOW He created me for a purpose, and still wonder if He can use me flaws and all. Fears and doubt, all of them. Weaknesses that plague many of us, maybe even you.

The GREAT NEWS is, He knows and has given us exactly what we need to get through it.

  • Christians have Him living within us and have assurance that He will never leave or forsake us! Matt 28:20 http://blb.sc/1QE5 We can stand firm with Him alongside us!


  • Stand firm in Who He is - Creator of the universe. Almighty God. Limitless in ability. He can never be overwhelmed by any situation. Job 11;7-10 http://blb.sc/EXDs


  • Stand firm in His Word. It is unchanging. It will never fail. It will build you up in greater knowledge of Him which makes you stronger. The life built on it, will not fall. Matt 7:24-27 http://blb.sc/EqZ1


  • Stand firm against the enemy. Our adversary roams about looking for weakness and pounces at just the right time. Like the chickadees and sparrows, our enemy strikes us in our weak points. Many times that is fear. So many, many times we are told “Do not be afraid.” Heb 13:6 http://blb.sc/4WBp It is a common weakness among us and the chickadees, but we serve the God of Peace. 2 Thess 3:16 http://blb.sc/4UAx


  • Stand firm in His promises. If He has given you a mission (He has) He will provide a way for you to accomplish it, no matter the odds, or circumstance, or situation. He WILL close the mouths of the lions. He WILL provide an ark in the flood. He WILL be with you in the furnace and loose your ropes and bring you through without even the smell of smoke on your clothes. Be strong and courageous when He directs your path. Joshua 1:6-9 http://blb.sc/EJYX


  • Stand with other Christians. It may feel like you are outnumbered, but working together with other like-minded believers helps. Phil 1:27-28 http://blb.sc/4T3r 

  • Stand firm when it seems like the enemy is winning. You may be injured by the enemy, but Satan loses the war. 2 Thess 1:6-10 http://blb.sc/F2Vc

  • Don’t give up! You may be outnumbered, but they are just sparrows and they do not have access to your home.  Be STRONG! 1 Cor 16:13 http://blb.sc/4Qsb


Father, we seem to have enemies all around us and yet with You within us we KNOW we are safe. Thank You for Your true and steady Word to strengthen and direct us. Help us to be an encouragement to others who are at a weak point, so they will remain strong in Your strength. Help us to look to You when fear besets us so that we will be faithful to do what You would have us to do. Thank You for defeating our adversary.

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Tuesday, October 28, 2014

Dirty Look From a Lizard or Pray Before You Spray

Lizard, "Really lady"?
No doubt about it, fall is arriving in the South.  The maple leaves are gloriously golden, and their winter guests, the Yellow-Bellied Sapsuckers, have arrived. 

The ladybugs are looking for a warm spot for winter.  Frogs are moving slowly due to the chill in the air.  Granted, “chilly” here means daytime highs in the 60’s, instead of the 90’s and I realize that is comfortable for much of the world, but in Alabama, that’s chilly. 

Knowing that our first frost of the season is around the corner, and it will soon be time to take our potted lemon tree into the sunroom for the winter.  That also means it is “debugging” time for any and all things wanting to come along for the ride into our home.    Armed with a squirt (Southern for “spray”) bottle of Malathion, I doused the tree and immediately little critters begin to scatter.  Before you send the hate mail, I am always careful to avoid the blossoms and any honey bees.  The yellow jackets were particularly offended and let me know with their best “intimidating and aggressive stare-down” they meant business.  Note: know your enemy before you fire.  I reminded them I was going to be hard to catch, and still had ammunition.   It was a lively, albeit short dance, and as usual, my husband found it humorous (from a distance I might add).  Other small beetle-like inhabitants coughed their last and fell to the ground.   They looked similar to ladybugs, but were dark brown and somewhat flatter than their red-backed counterparts.  Well, at least I got ’em. 

Day 2 – I got them, not their brethren and sisteren.  They are back.  This time I spotted them all around the blossom clusters, and under leaves.  Sneaky little rascals they are.  Another dose of “medicine” for them and many more surrendered and fell to the ground.  My husband noticed some of their cousins had made a home on the Angel Trumpet near the garage, so off this soldier goes, armed for another battle, and expectant of victory.   Note: know where your friends are before you fire.   As I was spraying, a little green lizard scooted forward along a leaf, then turned back a gave me a raised eyebrow  for spraying his tail.   In all honesty, his tail didn’t even look like a bug.  I just got carried away I guess.  That’s the best defense I could come up with on short notice.  So, I apologized, and warned him avoid any “wet” bugs on the lunch menu.

During my apology speech, it occurred to me that I tend to react quickly, sometimes even before I pray.  Shame on me.  God had already seen the homesteaders, and taken care of the situation by placing a hungry lizard on the job.  If I had taken the time to look, I might have seen him (although his camouflage is extraordinarily good).  But, as usual, I was in a hurry to “fix” the problem in my own power.  Note: seek out and/or know God’s plan before executing your own.  It is a hard lesson.  Maybe you have experienced it too.  Rushing in and acting before seeking His will never ends well.   Remember in the garden of Gethsemane, when Peter took it upon himself to take action against the soldiers who came to arrest Jesus?  An ear replacement later, he realized Jesus (God in flesh) had it under control.  Remember Abraham, Sarah, and Hagar?  God had it under control with a perfectly good, yet different plan, and yet they didn’t wait for it.  Remember the wandering in the wilderness for forty years, and promise of a land flowing with milk and honey?  When it was time to act according to His plan, they were afraid.  Maybe you and I also need to take time to let Him work, instead of presuming He needs us to act.  When He tells you it is time to act, act.  When He says “wait” and that He has it under control, let Him have it.  Note: He has a plan and it is under control.

Father, we thank You for Your glorious creation.  Thank You for the beauty all around us.  We trust Your great and mighty hand to deliver us, avenge us, and hold us securely today and every day of our lives.   Help us to seek Your will before we act, and guide our every action to glorify You today and every day hereafter.

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Monday, July 21, 2014

Wars, Battles and Yellow Jackets



Defeated warrior. Won the battle, lost the war.
Want to guess who won?

There was a battle, and it was not pretty.  I didn’t see it, but my warrior (husband) relayed the first hand account as he came inside battle-scarred and in pain.  He is charge of all of the yard work now, and was using an electric trimmer on some hedges at his favorite mother-in-law’s house.

What he didn’t know was that since their last trimming, a new community had taken residence at the base of the bush.  If you know flying, buzzing critters, you may know they usually don’t like loud noises, and they don’t take kindly to their homes being shaken and disturbed.  

With the noise of the electric trimmer in his ear, he didn’t readily hear the buzzing of the unhappy shrub dwellers.  He said the “yellow jacket dance” was one of his best, but the little guys were heavily armed.  They (or at least one) got him, and got him good.  His sweet little (excuse me, I meant to say big and brawny) leg paid the price. It was brutal. We looked for the stinger, and found none on the wounded appendage so we began our home remedies.  Alcohol, Witch Hazel, Campho-phenique, then went for the big drugs; Benadryl and Ibuprofen.  He was a brave, albeit wounded, soldier.

 I can’t say that I blame them, I’m protective of my family and home too, but they didn’t consult the proper housing authority before they took up residence. They drew first blood, now there would be war.  The one who caused the pain and suffering of course, was the first to go.  We waited until later that afternoon when (we hoped) that all their clan was home, and doused it with a gallon (seriously, a gallon) of insecticide.  I came for moral support and back up, so I waited outside the normal strike perimeter and tried to look innocent.   A few outsiders came to inspect our activity, but none went into or out of their “front door”.  (Believe me, I looked for any back door but found none.)

Satan has taken the form of a serpent in the past. I don’t know if he ever uses insect disguises or not, but as much destruction as these guys can employ, we would not be the first to suggest a label of them their kind as “evil”.  I’ve heard people comment that when they get to heaven, they will ask God why He ever made wasps, mosquitoes, hornets and such.  

Satan is the enemy of the children of God, make no mistake.  He will employ every means available to harm us, discourage us, to cause us to doubt or go astray.  He has read the end of the Book, and knows how it ends.  He loses and spends eternity in the Lake of Fire.  Eternity.  No hope. No reprieve. 

Because he knows his time is drawing short, Satan is full of wrath (Rev 12:12).  Knowing he is on the prowl and continually seeking who he may devour, it behooves us to be prepared, to be armed and equipped.  Our defense is our faith.  His stings are described as fiery darts much worse than hornet stings, but they can not penetrate or shake our faith because it is the armor given to us by our Father.  Our shield of faith holds true against his attacks so we can stand firm.   The sword of the Spirit (the Word of god) is our offence (Ephesians 6). 
By building your faith, you create your own iron dome of defense. 
By studying God’s Word, you build your offense. 
     Spend time there. 
     Spend time there today. 
     Spend time there everyday. 
You don’t want holes in your armor or your shield.  You want both a healthy defense and offense.  

He will come after you, but you CAN stand firm.  If you take time to build your defenses when that time comes, you will be glad you did!  It will never be time wasted, and there will never be anything else more important.

Father, 
thank you for equipping us for every event you allow into our lives.  
Help us today to be good soldiers, 
building up our defense of faith and our offense of Your Holy Word.  
Thank you for giving us the assurance that while Satan may be victorious in some battles, 
You have already won the war.
I pray in Jesus' precious name,
Amen

Overcomer, Mandisa



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